MY spirited child

I LOVE Raising Your Spirited Child! Works marvelously with MY spirited child, where none of the other strategies I have tried - not my own from years of experience working with children, nor those suggested by Dr. Sears(es) and E. Pantley - have ever helped her, only made both of us really really mad at each other. Now to re-read it every 3 months until it's automatic for me.